limerence

noun·/ˈlɪm.ə.rəns/

An intense, obsessive infatuation characterized by intrusive thoughts, heightened longing for reciprocation, and a tendency to read signs everywhere. Love experienced as fixation and suspense rather than settled attachment (psychological; modern). Not primarily about knowing another person, but about needing an answer.

In limerence, every delayed reply felt like a verdict, and every stray kindness looked like proof.

Etymology

A modern coinage in psychological writing, formed on a Latinate pattern to name a recognizable state that lacked a widely accepted term. It differentiates a stormy early intensity from the steadier weather of love.

Related Words

infatuationclosest common near-synonym, less clinically specific
obsessiona harsher cousin; limerence can feel sweeter
attachmentwhat may follow if the feeling matures
erotomaniaa delusional condition; not the same, but sometimes confused